OK... I'm going to be honest... I don't care if you disagree but this is how I see things.
I've noticed lately on TV and other surrounding that no wonder guys are such "hound dogs". Girls now a days put everything out for them to see. I was at church camp.... CHURCH CAMP!! And there still were some girls walking around in shorts that could count as underwear and tank tops that look like they were made for a toddler. I think there are some things defiantly wrong.
Why do girls do these things. Is it out of acceptance? Do they think guys will want them more?
But if you met a guy you really liked, and liked you back. Wouldn't you want him to like you back for you and not your body or what you put out.
See guys are not as smart as we sometimes give them credit for. If they see you half naked, them want to see the other half. They don't care about the girls inside the body... he just wants the body.
Girls today have no respect for themselves. And some people you read this are going to disagree and think I'm a horrible person but I DON'T CARE! Girls need their respect back.
For example... I have a friend... She puts everything out, wears the tight clothes and what not. She also dates like everyone who crosses her path. But one day she came to me and we had a interesting conversation....
"Maddie...I'm so upset"
"Why? What's going on?"
"I don't get why guys don't want to talk... Why they just want to do things that I'm not comfortable with..."
Well... Maybe if you didn't show off your body so much maybe you'll find a guy who really wants you for you..."
Now this friend of mine is not that smart... she makes a lot of stupid decisions that get her in trouble. But it's her life.
"What?? How will that help... How I dress and how I act is how I attract guys"
"Well... then I don't know what to tell you"
My friend would rather be treated like a piece of meat them be treated like a normal person. How sad... or how she thinks the only way to attract guys is by dressing like a slut.
Now I'm not saying every guy is a pig, I'm not saying that every girls dresses like a slut, I'm not pointing fingers, All I'm doing is stating what I believe and think.
**Miss. Maddie**
4 comments:
Thanks for the comment on my blog, love yours too!! (:
Yeah, I can agree to that. I think that some girls dress that way because they have low self esteem and want a guy to notice them. I have no idea. But I do agree that a girl should find a respectable guy that likes her for who she is as a person. Thanks for the comment. ^^ Oh, I love your banner by the way. :D
I love your layouttt to begin with haha =]
and for this blog i completely agree
some girls just want attention
and they get it, but not in a good way when you wear clothes that coulda fit you 9083409 years ago
loll:)
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