Ok Finally! I've found something!!
Flirting? I've been accused so many times of this!! But how can you help your self sometimes. But doesn't it suck when some one calls you out on it when you're with the person you're flirting with. Lol I've had that happen to. But isn't there different types of flirting. I mean my flirting has to be different then my best friend. But is flirting effective?? Do guys really fall for it?? Do guys even understand that we're flirting with them?? Is there such a thing as too much flirting or not enough. There's just so many questions about it, but does anyone have the qualifications to answer them?!
Well all I know is that guys can't flirt. There not very good at it. Plus it's called charm not flirt. So that changes things a little. But guys just sometimes "charm" too much. They just go OVER BOARD!!
Example:
Guy: Hey!
Girl: Hello...
Guy: My name is Guy
Girl: Oh Hi... My name is Girl
Guy: That's a very pretty name
Girl: Thank you, I like your name too
Guy: I LOVE YOU!!
Girl:..... (walks away)
Guy: Whoops....
This has happened to me too. Lol but I know it only happens like never. But you get the idea. Sometimes guys just more too quickly and the flirting or "charm" goes to fast.
But I personally like to flirt. It's fun and sometimes it works. But exactly what am I trying to get by flirting. What are any of us trying to get by flirting. Love? Boyfriend? Friend? Well it's uncertain but who cares!! Ya get what ya flirt for. And I am happy with that.
So to all you flirty girls we all are united!! Lol Jk
**Miss. Maddie**
12 comments:
Lol I agree! Boys go overboard because they get 'overly excited'. LOL!!! I'm not a flirt. My guyfriend Joe is a total flirt. AT times, it gets very annoying.
haha ya i can c how that would be annoying. i'm not a flirty person though, if a guy comes up 2 me i'm like "ok..." but anyway ya
i'm on oage 118 of Twiligh =) i'm really excited i gotta go read now.
you are absolutly right about guys!!!! They are really bad at flirting......I really love your blog, would you mind if I added it to my favorite blog list on my life blog????? -Krosemarie
ughh but there is a difference when a guy is flirty and just ignores people.
yeah im trying to learn just to work around them. cept.. they won't let me do things on my own. they like family time. and its terrible lol.
couldnt read your thing entirely but well i love the piks !!
*falls off computer chair laughing*
I've never heard it quite put like that, but yeah guys have zero finesse.
Boys are soo impatient !
and you can have the idea i don't mind !!!
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lol i tried flirting with these two amazing guys after i broke up with my last jerk of a boyfriend and totally messed things up with both of them. on the other hand i caught a guy i was playing doubles against starring at my chest so much he forgot to return the serve, then he gave me a conversation not to different from the one you dissplayed
lol i tried flirting with these two amazing guys after i broke up with my last jerk of a boyfriend and totally messed things up with both of them. on the other hand i caught a guy i was playing doubles against starring at my chest so much he forgot to return the serve, then he gave me a conversation not to different from the one you dissplayed
Some guys definitely have their flirt open from time to time. I think of my friend who loves to tell a story and then you have to wonder if its true or not. He makes you think. He had one girl believing that his mother worked at the library and she was totally Native American. Of course, he's blonde and blue eyed with this impish smile. For months she really thought she knew who his mother was when she didn't.
Usually, though, I have to admit I'll have my flirt on ..if say I'm in dire need of finding my locker at school or a class. I don't know what that says about me.
Good post.
Oh..and thank you so much for reading too.
and sometimes i subconciously flirt, i don't even realize i'm doing it! and guys and girls feed off of eachothers charm, like if girl gives guy postive flirtation....he'll give postive charm back!
I don't think I'm a flirt. -_-;
I can just be really bubbly sometimes. O-o And hyper. But, I'm hardly a flirt. I can attract guys by being myself and basically going about it the same way as I would make friends with the same sex as I am. Maybe just a little bit different. I wouldn't talk about guys to another guy, no! Geez! I may talk about video games or soemthin'. Hunting, biking, whatever the heck.
There are some who consider talking as flirting, especially with the opposite sex. You can talk without "flirt". There is a difference.
In my personal, personal opinion, I think flirting is a total waste of time. Talking comes easy, comes clean, and better than "charming" or "flirting", whatever the heck. And I think chatting leads to longer conversations, and for the better.
Just, girls, don't go overboard with the chatting.
-Kirsten
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